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Hot Babes are Surfing the net and are in chat rooms RIGHT NOW wanting to find a man who can please them!! Don't make the common mistakes most guys make. These mistakes will ensure failure and you will just be disappointed and alone if you don't correct them! So have a bit of patience and learn the proper way to score online with the babes. Tip 1: TAKE IT SLOW AT FIRST! A little patience will go a LONG WAY with the babes.Show your interest by being pleasantly flirtacious. Women need to be ROMANCED! They do NOT want to hear your crude remarks when you first meet them. Tip 2: DON'T BE CRUDE! That is NOT THE WAY to start a conversation with a chick who you may want to romance later in the real world! You would be surprised at the number of women who tell me about being hit on by idiots who start out a conversation like this: "Got a nude picture?". Or "How big are your boobs?", and "Wanna Cyber?" (cyber is short for "cyber-sex"). How many of those guys actually score with a woman in real life? You guessed it.. NOT MANY! Tip 3: DO ROMANCE HER! This will WORK WONDERS.Remember to ask her about things that are important to HER! Send or give her Gifts. Virtual Cards, Flowers and Gifts will turn heads and hearts your way and it doesn't need to cost you a dime. Real ones are better but these can be kept for the time when she becomes your One and Only. Tip 4:DO NOT BE WEAK! Then there are guys who don't come on strong enough. They come on weak. This is just as bad, except that it isn't as offensive to the babe. But if you don't show enough interest, you will bore them and they won't respond to your advances. You need to find that middle ground and be a little aggressive, mildly flirtatious, and be and nonchalant and non-desperate. Tip 5:MOST IMPORTANT! Although you can began meeting real girls online within a half hour from now, DO NOT EXPECT to have them eating out of your hand today. Of course it could happen the first day you meet her. You could get lucky, but more than likely, she will need to get to know you a little bit. Women are like that. Guys ain't.  |
Okay, now to the ladies! You and I both know that there are plenty of guys out there in Cyberspace. Many are just looking for an on-line thrill because they can't get one in real time, but there are also those who are looking for a genuine relationship. How to sort out the men from the boys is what we are about here. Tip 1: DO TAKE YOUR TIME! The guys do like to do the chasing so if you rush in you won't give him a chance to Romance YOU! Certainly show your interest but don't give him all the goodies first off. He needs to have something to look forward to in order to keep him interested. Tip 2: DON'T TELL HIM ALL YOUR PROBLEMS! He is definitely not interested at this stage your ex and all the gory details of how bad he treated you! He wants you to be interested in him. He wants to be your hero and not feel like just another jerk. When he asks about your past is the time to tell. If all you talk about is your past misery you will chase him away. Be interested in NOW and in HIM! Tip 3: DO THANK HIM! If he does something nice or sends you cards or flowers, appreciate him. Men do like to be appreciated. He has done something special for you. It might not seem so big deal to you but you will find that appreciation goes a long way with your man! The more you appreciate the special things he does for you the more he will want to do them. Tip 4:DO NOT BE MS TOUGH GUY! Remember, he is looking for a woman, a lady. If he was wanting another man he wouldn't be talking to you! Tough macho type women are a real turn off for a man who is seriously looking for a long term relationship. Sure he wants you to be self assured, and complete but he wants you to be feminine too. You can be strong and self assured without being tough! Tip 5:MOST IMPORTANT! Do not try to improve him. This is one of the most common mistakes women make. For some reason women think that men are deficient in some way and within a short time set up a one women "fix-it" committee. WRONG MOVE! Believe me, he is not broken and he does not need fixing! If he seeks your advice give it gladly but don't go past that. |
REMEMBER THIS! Things come together MUCH quicker online than they do in real time. The on-line environment is less threatening. It is easier to be bolder and easier to be honest. You can also cut and run without fear of reprisal. So exercise a little restraint ok? It all happens fast anyway! You will soon be at the point where you will have more contacts than you can handle! Whether you are seeking a long term relationship leading to marriage, a short term fling, or possibly just someone you can talk to on the phone and have a "long distance love affair" with it is all possible if you take note of the Do's and DO NOT'S of Dating On-line. |
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